Everyday History

The Fake Rich Kid. Let's start with the one nobody admits to being. Mostly because admitting it kind of defeats the entire purpose. The fake rich kid isn't actually wealthy. They're renting the appearance of wealth. One designer item at a time, like a tiny luxury subscription running on a part-time paycheck. A single real handbag carried into every photo. One pair of expensive sneakers worn with absolutely everything. Rain, snow, job interviews. A luxury hotel lobby picture taken without ever booking an actual room upstairs.  It's less dishonesty and more aspiration with a marketing budget of zero, and almost everyone has met one of these without realizing it. Possibly because the entire skill set involved is convincing you not to look too closely.  The Pressure Cooker Kid. This one flips the whole rich kids have it easy idea on its head, and honestly deserves a little sympathy. The pressure cooker kid grows up wealthy, sure, but every grade, every sport, ev...

People, or even you, use the words cemetery and graveyard interchangeably, have you ever noticed that? Today someone will say, “He was buried in the graveyard.” Then tomorrow , another person will say, “I visited the cemetery.” And we just nod because we think they’re the same thing. Not exactly. In fact, there’s a hidden difference between the two that most people go their entire lives without knowing, and once you learn it, you’ll start noticing that language has a piece of history to it. So, what exactly separates a cemetery from a graveyard? The answer takes us back hundreds of years, and here's the big difference: A graveyard is a burial ground attached to a church. A cemetery is a burial ground that is not necessarily connected to a church. That's all. Interesting, right? Let's dig deeper. When you see an old church with gravestones surrounding it, you're most likely looking at a graveyard. When it's a large, independent burial park with roads, lan...

I have noticed something oddly consistent about people around me. Whether it's in a crowded place like a classroom, office, or at a bus stop, I noticed that most people wear their wrist watches on their left wrist instead of their right. While growing up, mostly as a teenager, going to church or an event, I'm told to wear my watch on my left wrist all the time. And when I ask why, they tell me because it makes me look presentable/respected or that how it has been. But it still didn't make sense to me and I wondered: was it just a random habit, a fashion trend that stuck or was there an actual reason behind it? I did my research and here are the things I found out.  First, it all starts with your dominant hand. Most people are right-handed and because of that, their right hand does almost everything. Their right hand does the writing, eating, opening of doors, using their phones, carrying different things, etc. Now, back to us, let's imagine ourselves wearing...

It's your first time visiting Japan. You decide to go out and explore the beautiful city, then you found a small ramen shop. You order some ramen, take a bite, and it's so delicious that you loudly slurp your noodles. Back home, your parents might have given you the look for making that much noise at the table over noodles or spaghetti, but in Japan? The chef might actually smile, because you just complimented their cooking with the way you slurped the noddles. That's the fascinating thing about manners in Japan. What is considered respectful in one country can be very rude, or just really strange in another country. So, if you're ever planning to visit Japan(like I hope to one day), or you're simply curious about how cultures are in other countries, here are some everyday habits that are perfectly polite in Japan but could raise a few eyebrows or weird looks, elsewhere. First, slurping your noodles is a compliment in Japan. In many countries, making lo...

When someone says, "Go and meet the priest," and another person says, "Talk to the pastor," most of us don't think twice because we think after all, they're both Christian religious leaders. Although priests and pastors both help people grow in their faith in Christ, they aren't simply two different names for the same role. In fact, they both belong to different Christian traditions, carry different responsibilities, and even view their authority in different ways. Once you understand the difference, you won't find it hard to identify them. Now, the difference between priests and pastors didn't just happen overnight. It began centuries ago. Priests have existed since the earliest days of Christianity. Their role developed from the early Church and was influenced by Jewish temple worship. The word priest comes from the Greek word presbyteros, meaning "elder," but over time it became associated with leading sacred ceremonies a...

Take a walk into almost any funeral you see, anywhere in the world, and you will notice a sea of people in black clothes. You'll notice men in black suits and women in black gowns with black veils or scarfs. It automatically feels like an expected and natural thing to do in a sorrowful situation.  But here’s the question I never stop asking: Why black? Why not white or blue, or anything else? The answer isn’t just about fashion or tradition. It was also about power, emotion, and, history. The colour black started with something simple and obvious - darkness. Black is the color of the night time, darkness, and/or the absence of light. Across so many different cultures, darkness has always been linked to the unknown, the end of life, and silence. So wearing black, became a visual way of saying, something has ended or someone has passed away - like in Nigeria that we all assume someone is dead by the we see people dressed in all black. Simple as that. To understand more ab...